Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Building Beds and Killing Lice...

Written by Jackson May, age 13

Today we woke up at 6:45 so we could brush our teeth, take showers, and get dressed for the 7:30 breakfast time. It may seem like a lot of time to you, but my family doesn't like getting up early so it takes us a while to get going in the morning.  We (my mom ,dad, and I) have to get some coffee and a shower before we are awake enough to speak to others.  As I heard from others, it was a delicious meal of pineapple, mango, watermelon, eggs (with ham of course), and beans (I wasn't feeling well so I didn't eat).   They ate at 7:30 so we could be ready for the people from the medical clinic to pick us up at 8:00.  As we have learned, everything is more laid back here.  When someone says they will be there at 8:00 they could be there at 9:00 and think nothing of it. 

Our translator Darvy  picked us up from Art and Lisa's house. He had another friend named Danny following us in his truck, which was filled with enough wood to build five beds.


It was a short drive there, with breathtaking scenery of the mountains and farms along the way.  It was cool to see how they grew crops on the side of the mountains.  We realized we were really a world away when my dad saw men digging on the side of the road and thought, "wow they could do this in a few hours with a bulldozer."   However, they just don't have that kind of money here.  

We got to the clinic and were immediately greeted by about 100 women and children who were crammed into the clinic like tuna in a can!   We went straight to work after a short prayer with the staff.  Darvy  taught my dad and me how to build the beds.  So for the first bed we were helped by both Darvy  and Danny,  but after the first bed  Darvy, the professional carpenter, left us to fend for ourselves in the scary world of building.  After the second bed, we finally got into the groove of building and started to pick up the pace.  

While we were building those first two beds,  the women were doing lice treatments for the kids.    After completing the second bed, we loaded the beds on the back of the truck and drove into the next village. As my mom said multiple times, "thank God for Danny."  He is a 245-pound body builder who leg presses 1200 pounds and bench presses 500.  Danny did most of the heavy lifting. The beds weren't all that heavy, I mean my dad and I could carry one on flat ground, but when you have to tip it up on its' side, (while going up a steep hill for a couple hundred yards)  that's a whole nother story!  


The people were beyond grateful and everyone was very friendly when we delivered the beds. We had a translator that spoke Spanish and the indigenous language. Teresa translated from the indigenous language into Spanish and Jenni or Danny translated into English.   The kids and women who lined the dirt roads waved to us along the way.  


When we got back from the clinic we realized that all of the lice patients had been treated.  We were all tired and  sat down for a lunch of egg salad sandwiches, cookies, apples, bananas, which was made by Darvy's mom.  It was delicious!   I even had two sandwiches and I don't like sandwiches very much normally. 

As we were taking our second trip out to deliver two more beds, we saw a bus driving through, and though the bus driver didn't know it, some kids jumped on the back of the bus and were skiing with their bare feet on the ground. We drove off and once again rode in the truck bed. At one of the houses we delivered to, there was a disabled old man outside their house that couldn't use his legs and was in a wheelchair. My dad and I wondered how the man could get around in this country, because they depend on the man to work in the fields, there aren't many  desk type jobs for people in those villages in Guatemala, like there are in North America.  It is amazing how much someone's life can differ based on what family you're born into.  I could just as easily been born a Guatemalan orphan. 

It felt like a great accomplishment to build those beds.  We all loved it and felt really tired in a good way. 


Written by Marlene Eckert

If I didn't look too closely, the hillsides containing lush crops that our team observed from our jam-packed vehicle while ambling along a dirt road on our way to serve at a medical clinic in an indigenous village appeared to resemble the Tuscan countryside.  However, upon closer examination, we were definitely not in Italy!  Women dressed in costumes unique to their village ambled along the road with loads balanced on their heads, babies slung on their backs, and small children in tow.  Once we even saw one of the little girls carrying a baby on her own back.   Men worked in crews digging trenches and extending the concrete portion of the road, while clusters of children played along the roads.   What I didn't see until later when we were delivering the beds was that there is a whole "nother" world that lay beyond what is visible from the road--clusters of many one-room houses with dirt floors, bamboo stick walls, and tin roofs that become visible only by hiking steep, muddy trails.  Most of the homes probably have no electricity, but late in the afternoon I did observe a light bulb dangling from a doorway, attached to a frayed cord that was tied to a tree, when we were delivering the last of the 5 beds.

My first impression upon arrival at the clinic was that women and children filled the waiting room to the brim.  The clinic operates on Tuesday and Thursday mornings and serves 4,000 people in 3 villages.   There is a nominal charge for most of the services (typically between 5 to 10 Q--approximately one dollar; Q stands for quetzale, the Guatemalan currency which is worth about 12 cents each).   The fees motivate the patients to take their medical care more seriously, and of course nobody is turned away for lack of ability to pay.


The one service that is totally complimentary is the one that we assisted with--lice treatment for the children.  Our typical clients were girls between the ages 3- 10 with long, thick hair, but we served a few little boys as well.  The procedure consists of rinsing the hair with cold water (since there is no hot available), shampooing, and then applying a lice treatment .  The child then sits for 10 minutes to allow time for the lice to come to the surface, and then we rinsed it out, applied conditioner, combed the hair, and finally used a lice comb to attempt to remove the unwanted bugs.  The final touch was braiding the hair and securing the braids with new, clean hair accessories.  We were amazed at how still and cooperative the kids were (my granddaughters would never have got past the initial dousing with cold water without putting up a fight that I would have lost!)


The sad and frustrating aspect was that it was impossible to remove all of the lice due to extremely limited resources (e.g., the children had to share towels and the product used was not on the same order of magnitude as effective as what we use in the states); more significantly, even if we were able to completely eradicate the lice, they would quickly be back again since the children immediately return to unsanitary living conditions.  The volunteers at the clinic reminded us that we are there only to provide temporary relief because the root cause is not easily solved--as Katie Davis says in "Kisses From Katie", it feels like we are trying to solve an ocean of problems one eye dropperful at a time, but God only asks us to help the one in front of us, and yesterday these little ones were the ones in front of us.   While I am in agreement with this, right now my heart yearns to find a way to return to educate these beautiful, loving people on how to introduce cleanliness into their homes.

Upon returning to Art & Lisa's home, we found Florita, one of the ladies in Lisa's Bible study group, waiting for us.   We learned that she had come in the morning to greet us and was disappointed that she missed us, so she made a second trip in order to say good-bye to us face-to-face.  She presented all of the ladies in our group with roses to express her gratitude for our having travelled so far to visit with the Guatemalan people (we feel terrible that they give us gifts when they likely  do not have food on their tables, but unbelievable generosity is part of their culture).  

If that wasn't enough, I was moved to tears when Florita's 9-year-old daughter Tiffany gave a homemade card and stuffed bunny rabbit to our 12-year-old teammate Morgan, who Tiffany had bonded with at the party last Thursday.   I, too, had bonded with Morgan, who agreed to be my temporary granddaughter for the week, so I am especially touched because I know that the love that Tiffany showed Morgan will have a huge impact on her for the rest of her life.   After Florita and Tiffany finished sharing their encouragement and faith, we had 2 more similar rounds with the Camarenas' gardener Augusto and their cook/housekeeper Eufy.  We are grateful that funds from our trip fees were available to make food and monetary gifts to Eufy, Augusto, all of the ladies in the Bible Study, as well as to the Camarenas in support of their ministry.


After dinner we gathered for our final team meeting.  We were able to share how we had each been impacted throughout the week. We also processed the potential challenges of "re-entry" back into our "normal lives."  We have all been changed by the love, faith, hospitality, gratitude and warmth we received this week.  We came to bless the Guatemalan people, but they truly blessed us beyond belief. 

The final thought that I want to share is that though we have much in terms of cleanliness, health, education and material blessings, we met many Guatemalans who taught us about faithfully relying on and being grateful to our Lord, even in the midst of tragic circumstances.

We want to share our deep gratitude to all of our supporters.  Thank you for your prayers, donations, encouragement & financial support!  May you be greatly blessed through your eternal impact on the people of Guatemala.

Monday, November 21, 2011

A Day of Contrasts...


Written by Jenni Ramsey

The past four days have been filled with laughter, deep emotions, new experiences and unforgettable moments for our faithful, gifted and humble team of nine. I have been honored to lead many international outreach teams over the years, but this team has been especially unique for many reasons. Although three of our team members are from Southern California and six are from Tennessee (and we met for the first time in the Dallas airport), we have built significant and life-long relationships that will hold a special place in each of our hearts. Our team meetings have been filled with jokes and laughter, but also with tears of brokeness, heartfelt testimonies and moving prayers for the families and children that we have served as well as for one another. Needless to say, we have all been greatly changed and will return home this week with grateful hearts and many experiences to process.

The last five days have been fast and furious. We had an intense four days of ministry, serving at the home of Art and Lisa Camarena (missionaries in Guatemala for 15 years), visiting impoverished communities and caring for precious orphans. Today was a much needed R&R day. After a very emotional time of prayer in the morning, we loaded the cars and headed for the picturesque city of Antigua. However, we had one final home visitation to make at the "casa" of Leo and Sandra. Sandra has been part of Lisa's Bible study for many years. She is a beautiful woman who has suffered tremendous losses, including the drowning of a child, a near death experience from hemorrhaging in a pregnancy (which resulted in the loss of the baby) and the tragic deaths of other family members. Ben Keenan, Roberta's husband who passed away this July, dearly loved this family and served them on many of his teams. His impact is clearly visible by the fact that Leo and Sandra's youngest son is named after him. Roberta brought a gift for little Benjamin today and he loved modeling his news pajamas for the "gringos!"


Art and Lisa have ministered to Leo and Sandra's family for many years. Previous short-term teams from our church have also served their family and provided funds and labor to improve their home (which was once a shack). Their home today is poor by our standards, but it has been significantly improved with tile floors and a separate kitchen. The family beamed with pride as they gave our team a tour. They pointed to the new walls (built by teams from our church) and thanked us with heavy sobs of gratitude. Sandra was so proud of her new kitchen, yet shared how workers had stolen tile and taken advantage of them during construction. Despite the setbacks, their family is grateful to God and their faith is deep, real and absolutely contagious.

It is extremely difficult to describe the emotions that were felt in Leo and Sandra's home today. Though they are impoverished by our standards, they are grateful. Though they suffer deeply, they are filled with joy. Though providing food for their family is a challenge at times, they thank God for His provisions. They described our team as God's angels... a humbling and overwhelming honor. We have expressed to each family this week that the gifts that we brought came from God. We were just the vehicle through which He chose to provide in their lives. It has been a tremendous privilege to be HIS hands and HIS feet this week to some of the most beautiful people in the world.


After a special time of prayer with Sandra and her family, we headed down the lush highway to the historic city of Antigua. Antigua sits deep in a valley surrounded by breathtaking volcanoes on every side. The cobblestone streets are inviting. The restaurants, hotels and ancient ruins are post card perfect, and the contrast from Leo and Sandra's house was tremendous.


As we visited historic ruins, enjoyed some open air shopping and ate lunch in a quaint patio, we discussed how most tourists don't experience the "real Guatemala." The contrasts in Guatemala are blatant. There are rich and poor. There are five star hotels and shacks. Reconciling all of this for the team has been challenging, to say the least.


We ended our day with a wonderful meal in restaurant that is over five hundred years old. It is nestled in a breathtaking hotel, which once belonged to Guatemalan royalty. We were entertained by indigenous Guatemalan music and enjoyed a performance with dancers dressed in Mayan/Spanish costumes. Some of our team members even danced in the show! As I write this post now, most of our team has gone to bed. Tomorrow is our last day of ministry. We will be serving in a medical clinic in an impoverished village. Our team will have the privilege to build five beds and deliver them to homes. I was honored to participate in this project last year, and am thrilled to experience this again with the team tomorrow.


Our team will depart from Guatemala City early Wednesday morning. We will most likely be unable to post tomorrow, but please continue to visit the blog. We plan to post an update on the bed project after returning home and will continue post other updates as well. Buenas noches de Guatemala!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

James 1:27 - Loving Orphans!


Written by: Lisa, Morgan, and Conner on behalf of the team

Hola from Guatemala! After a night of sleeping in bunk beds at Casa Bernabe' and sharing our quarters with a great mission team from Ohio, we awoke on Sunday excited to help get the children ready to worship the Lord Casa Bernabe' style. Like the prior day, as our team struggled to help get approximately 12-15 children ranging in age from babies to two year olds ready for church, our team continued to be amazed at the enormous amount of responsibilities placed on the house parents and their teenage assistants. They truly have a calling on their life in order to sustain the daily tasks of caring for these children. When the kids were ready for church, we once again climbed the steep stairs (approx 120 steps) with a baby in our arms or holding a little one's hands to reach the area in which the church services were held.


The children were dressed nicely for church and you could definitely tell the children were accustomed to this routine. As Amy blogged yesterday, the children are organized into homes, called Casas, and the children in the homes sit together during church. It was fun to see all the children, staff, and visitors pour into the church area excited to worship God. Our team each had a child to love, sing, and dance with during the service. The worship band in Morgan's words was "amazing". Conner commented that it was an "astounding" site that Guatemalans and Americans were praising the Lord together. The energy of the service was apparent to all those participating. There was a man waving a flag and dancing during the worship time along with dancing by the front stage by the children and even our own team member, Marlene. The precious children of Casa Bernabe', though they come from tough circumstances and will continue have real struggles in their lives, are being fed the Word of God which will give them the strength they need throughout their lives.


After church, we took the 3 year olds to the playground area for Sunday school and some fun playtime. We each had particular children that we established relationships with in a short amount of time. Conner had a little boy named William from the Baby Home that he bonded with and William wouldn't let Conner put him down without a fight. Morgan and I bonded with Mariella (who loved the monkey bars) and Veronica, (who loved to twirl) from the Toddler house (ages 3 to 5) and Hanna and Dulce from the Baby house (up to 2 years). Dulce was always attached to Morgan in some way today. Jenni bonded with Adan in the Baby house and could often be found singing sweet Christian songs in Spanish to the children. Phil thought Antonia and Katerine were pretty special and tried to keep up with the energy of Antonia. Amy also bonded with Mariella and Jackson loved spending time with Stephania from the Toddler house. Marlene had fun spending time with Adan, Claudia, and Veronica.


Though particular children touched our hearts in special ways by just being the one in front of us that needed some loving and hugging, all of the children have made lasting imprints on our hearts that won't be forgotten. We all prayed over as many children as possible throughout the day and some of us also felt led to sponsor some of the kids God placed in our paths. We are excited to continue these relationships with the children. Guatemala is closed for adoptions so there is an overflow of children going into the orphanages and they need help providing for these children.


During the afternoon, we helped the Baby house with lunch after they got up from their naps. It was so cute to see 12-15 little ones sitting around patiently in a circle in their high chairs ready to be fed. We helped the kids through their lunchtime routine and then took them outside to play. While at the baby house, we met the mother of one of the little boys. Morgan and Conner were astonished to find out that the mother was only 12 years old. Unfortunately, here in Guatemala, this is not an unfamiliar story. The culture here is to have a lot of children. The mothers and various caretakers are young themselves so a lot of unnecessary accidents and illnesses result as a lack of education on safety and hygiene.


Towards the late afternoon, we took the children in the Toddler house for a walk on the large grounds of Casa Bernabe'. During our walk, we saw a huge mansion high on a hill. It makes one pause to see that much wealth overlooking an orphanage in need. In Guatemala, you only see extreme wealth or extreme poverty. Two very sharp contrasts that are hard to reconcile in one's mind. If only we all saw our possessions as God's and not our own, there wouldn't be such extreme poverty in the world today. This is something that everyone will wrestle with on our return to the States.


After dinner, we headed back over to the Toddler house to help get the kids ready for bed. We had an assembly line going as the kids were showered and dressed for bed. Once again, it was a hilarious process. When the van arrived to take us back to Art and Lisa's home in San Lucas, we said our last good-byes to the children which took a really long time. We couldn't give the children enough hugs. We do know that God will be them always.


Just like hot chocolate on a ski slope that tastes better after it's earned, we will all sleep soundly and happily tonight knowing that our day was well spent. Tomorrow, we will be spending the day in Antigua and will have some time to process the past few life changing days.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Loving the Fatherless


​This is Amy and Phil, writing the blog for the team today.  Today is Saturday.  We have been here for 3 full days and it seems like a different lifetime.  There is no way to put this experience adequately into words.  Our agenda for Saturday and Sunday is ministry at the Casa Bernabe Home for Children.  We left the Camarena home this morning and drove for over an hour to reach the children's home.  (It is not politically correct to call it an orphanage, but it is).  Jenni, our trip leader, said this orphanage is the nicest institutionalized home she has ever seen.  It is extremely well organized.  The children are housed in individual homes with house parents (12-15 children per home, plus those of the house parents).  This seems like a much healthier atmosphere for the children than rows and rows of bunks in one huge room.  The children in Casa Bernabe are either orphans or have been removed from their homes due to abuse or neglect.  We saw this first hand later in the visit.  


We started out in the common area and met the toddlers from the Casa de Alabanza home.  We met the house parents - Amanda and Billy - and found out they have 15 toddlers (age 3-6) in their house.  Can you even imagine?   We spent an hour or so loving on these children who just soaked it up.  Many of them wanted nothing more than to be carried on your hip.  Phil experienced a little boy who repeatedly held onto Phil's finger.  It was clear that the little boy ached for his daddy.  


We found out the Baby House needed help (yippee!!) so we walked down 108 steps to get there.  We each were drawn especially to a different child.  We were asked to help get the children (all 13 of them) up the hill to a little party.  We each got to love on a little one and help them eat hot dogs and cake.  The children are amazingly adept and coordinated. It is clear that they must learn early to fend for themselves.  


​As we spent more time with the children, we noticed so many were marked by scars.  It was truly heart-breaking as we wondered if that event could be the reason the child was removed from the home.  Regardless of how it happened, the environment in Guatemela is nowhere near the safety we presume to have in America, but we don't have time to go into all of that.   Each face we see makes us think of our precious Sophie (4 years old and adopted from Guatemala), and how she could so easily have been in this poverty.  We are so grateful to have her as our daughter in America.  


Our next mission was to bless Amanda and Billy and their 15 toddlers with a pizza party.  We got to give the house parents a small break, and love on the toddlers with a treat of pizza.  Amanda and Billy moved here from Boston a year ago.  They have a 13 year old son named William, a 15 year old daughter (Emily) and a 6 year old son (Yates).  Hanging out with the toddlers was actually a really fun time, as long as you could protect your heart from the realization that they have each experienced some horrific event to get here (either their parents died, or they were abused to the point of removal from the home and neither one is a good answer).  


The children sleep in miniature bunk beds.  There are 5 girls and 10 boys in separate rooms.  We got to witness the bathtime event, which was truly hilarious.  We were standing in the hall, while Billy shared his heart with us.  He is concerned for his son William, who has obediently followed the call on his parents life to Guatemala, but is not happy about it.  We can so identify with their dilemma as we tried to picture our son Jackson (age 13 also) surviving life in Guatemala if we were missionaries (you people can stop snorting now!).   We truly felt for Billy and Amanda AND William.  While we were having this serious discussion, children started walking down the hall stripping.  They were throwing clothes into a laundry basket in the hall (impressive) and walking into their respective bathrooms for a group shower.   There were 5 girls in one tub and 10 boys in another tub, being "hosed down" with a removable shower head. Meanwhile, Billy is completely calm and ignoring the chaos, pouring out his heart about his concern for his son.  We were in awe of the organized chaos - it reminded us of a 6 & under swim meet!.  We got to step in and dress a bunch of them in PJ's and socks and snuggle for kisses and "buenas noches".    


Today was a more light-hearted day, considering the previous events in our trip.  The poverty we have witnessed is completely heart-stopping and mind-numbing.  It makes us vow to ourselves we will never complain again.  It makes us vow to get home and figure out a way to do more.  The need is so great.  If you have read Katie Davis's book, her main theme is to "help the one in front of you".  She says she feels like she is trying to empty the ocean with a dropper.  That's what it looks like here.  The need is so great that it's hard to know where to start.  However, making a difference in one life is valuable, so that's where we will start.